One of the levels of sexual inclination - this is
psycho-sexual orientation. The only factor, which in this plan
can cause avoidance tendencies, is the aggression, whose level is
assigned by the balance of the sexual hormones: by estrogen, by
testosterone. Aggression can be manifested in the form of
rivalry, hierarchy of domination, hostile interrelations. (See: Instincts and reflexes.)
Let us place different types of behavior according
to the sign of aggressiveness in the ascending order from below -
upward.
Normal sexual (sexual) orientation in men,
beginning from the early childhood, is formed via the avoidance of the
extreme manifestations of man aggression (but from other side -
solitude) and with tendency toward the female (maternal) interaction
mode (without the explicit spirit of rivalry), and therefore to
gravity to the women.
Interaction between the men according to the type "weakly
aggressive" is characteristic for the business, friendly and play (in
the childhood) relations, and also - for the relations in the family.
For molding of the psycho-sexual orientation of women
important is also the aggressive type of interrelation between the
men. Aggressive manifestations - rivalry, domination - are
received (unconsciously) by women as the sign of force, the ability to
protect. And this becomes the main reason for gravity to the
men.
The final fastening of the outlined orientation occurs,
when sexual ripening begins, and when is strengthened between the
representatives different floors mutual empathy (see: Attractiveness, the phenomenon of beauty.).
The influence of family (strict father, good mother) does
not have, apparently, decisive importance in the formation of sexual
orientation, since relation in the family, as a rule, are more formal
are smoothed than out of the family.
Consequently, interaction from the early childhood in the
groups of the contemporaries mixed according to the sexual sign, where
will occur both some aggressive and nonagressive manifestations, will
consider standard.
Asymmetry of the normal sexual orientation, man and
female, svyazanna with the asymmetry of manifestation and perception
of aggression in men and women. With the deviations
(homosexuality, lesbiyanstvo), the asymmetry of orientations becomes
more noticeable. Arise deviations can both for the biological
reasons (for example, a change in the hormonal balance) and on the
social (different isolations).
Another level of sexual inclination is connected with the
genital sensations (which projectively are extended also to the
representatives of opposite floor). It is at first glance, the
sequence of events appears as follows: the state of sexual
(sexual) excitation, accompanied by the erection of sex organ, impels
to the sexual proximity. However, excitation cannot be primary
(in the sense of onto- and phylogenesis) in this the turn of events,
since originally "not known" what signals must it start, also, for
what purpose. The situation of avoidance, created with internal,
physiological mechanisms, can give correct orientator only. This
situation creates the mechanism of the erection initially independent
from the external signals: in men - sexual term, in women -
clitoris.
The fact is that the erection can appear spontaneously,
and not only during the intimate relations. And another
important observation, which escapes from the first: erection in
the majority of the cases is not accompanied by the sexual excitation
(i.e., it appears only genital excitation). For example, during
the rapid phase of sleep, in the mornings after sleep, but sometimes
also in the daytime, the spontaneous erection, which does not pass
into the sexual excitation, can have obtrusive nature and cause the
state of overall discomfort, frustration, or the discomfort of
overcrowding and irritation (during the sleep - unconscious) directly
in the sex organs. This is the biologically programmed state,
the internal situation, which causes the reaction of avoidance.
The appearing then (stimulated by imagination or during the
sexual contact) pleasant sensations in the sex organs (see: Inversion of emotions - base shielding mechanism.) and
pleasant sexual excitation - are second and they only indicate the
direction, following which weakening internal stress (lightening the
state of discomfort), occurs, which in the final analysis determines
the model of sexual behavior.
During the rapid phase of sleep not only "is accumulated"
internal stress in connection with the erection, but also appear
situational conditional reactions (which, apparently, rapidly are
braked) to the situational signals in the subjects of dreams.
Many conditional connections to the situation, possibly, explain
that, with what ease the erection in the appropriate situations passes
into the sexual excitation. I.e., two factors: from one
side, the pressure of unconditional reaction (state of discomfort to
the erection), and with another, the "accumulation" of conditional
connections to the situation, they balance in the close one to the
position of equilibrium (this it is determined, apparently, by the
relationship of a quantity of sleeps and by the duration of erection
during the rapid phase of sleep), which gives the common picture of
the "distance of unpleasant stimulus". This increases the
probability of inversion - the passage of the negative emotion of
discomfort into the positive emotion - pleasant genital sensations. (See: Reflexes, emotions, motives.)
Generally, under the action of sexual inclination
the wide circle of all possible inversions occurs. Thus, the
smells or the visual means, in other cases which cause aversion, in
the intimate interrelations can acquire the property of the additional
exciting factor. (See: Displacement, inversion, sublimation - stages of process.)
The culmination moment of sexual behavior is
orgasm - experience of strong sexual satisfaction, which coincides
with the sharp weakening of nervous and muscular tension, in men
connected with the ejaculation. Physiological sensations and
psychological experiences of orgasm are third component of the
phenomenon of sexual inclination.
Based on materials of Vladimir Ivanov's article
"Psychology, dreams, reflexes" - Part 1,Part 2.
The following diagram of the formation of sexual
orientation and sexual inclination is assumed.
The appearing spontaneous erection (in men - sexual term, in
women - clitoris) causes first discomfort, negative emotions.
Then, in proportion to habituation (braking the conditioned
reflexes to the situation) occurs inversion, i.e., negative emotions
from one case to the next begin to be converted into the positive.
Appear the pleasant sensations in the sex organs, which pass
into the prevailing positive emotion (general sexual excitation,
euphoria), on the basis of which appears the prevailing motivation -
sexual inclination. Inclination to the opposite floor is formed
by the mechanism of projection, i.e., sensations in the sex organs are
projected on the persons of opposite floor.
The direction of sexual orientation is assigned by interaction
in the groups. The men have correct sexual orientation
(inclination to the women) - the result of aggressive interaction in
the man medium (rivalry, hostile relations causes rejection). In
women - this is the unconscious estimation of the aggressive behavior
of men (hardness, self-confidence, domination, the ability to protect)
as attractive.
Leon
You will excuse, but delirium complete....
Quotation: Inclination to the opposite floor is formed by the
mechanism of projection, i.e., sensations in the sex organs are
projected on the persons of opposite floor.
i.e., in the sexual inclination is primary erection?
Steeply...
Quotation: The men have correct sexual orientation (inclination to
the women) - the result of aggressive interaction in the man medium
(rivalry, hostile relations causes rejection).
I.e., if not there is sopernnichestva, then homosexuality
is decided beforehand?
Quotation: Inclination to the opposite floor is formed by the
mechanism of projection, i.e., sensations in the sex organs are
projected on the persons of the opposite floor
you generally do remember, in what the designation
of sex?
V.I.
Quotation: i.e., in the sexual inclination is primary erection?
It is similar, yes...
As ejaculation occurs without the orgasm, so also
spontaneous erection (observing from the early childhood) first it
appears without the general sexual excitation.
Let us represent on the contrary, that the sexual excitation is
primary. But what signal must it start? Cannot be
genetically programmed similar that any specific means would cause
excitation (for example, with the imprinting it is programmed only
mechanism itself, but not visual means).
It is analogous, as a result of injury first appears the pain,
excitation, and then pleasant skin itch of the healing wound.
Here pain is primary, the general excitation and euphoria - are
second.
Quotation: I.e., if not there is sopernnichestva, then
homosexuality is decided beforehand?
Such in nature it does not occur so that not there would
be rivalry. If rarely and it occurs (for example, as a result of
isolation), then yes, are possible deviations.
Projection - this conditional connection it shows, what signal
(for example, visual means) must cause the conditional reaction
(excitation and erection), which, as is known, it is constructed on
the basis of unconditional (spontaneous erection and reaction to it).
I.e., man his sensations in the sex organs first projects to the
sex organs of woman, and then, at the sight the more or less exposed
woman operates conditional reaction, appear the same sensations and
motives, but strengthened to the level of the prevailing motivation.
Here are well-known facts.
With alcoholism, addiction, method of tranquilizers, soporific
is disrupted the structure of sleep, in particular, rapid phase.
Is disturbed the spontaneous erection, which within the standard
is observed during this phase. As a result the level of sexual
inclination is reduced, impotence can develop. Here, of course,
is possible the influence and of other factors.
Without the difference
In order to be dismantled at this situation, it is
necessary to compulsorily read the book on zoopsychology K.Z.
Fabry about the instincts and different forms of instruction from the
generation are further. To further read a little Vilyunasa
V.K. about the mechanisms of mental obuslavlivaniya and mediation.
In the sum correct picture will come out.
Semion
as feels herself woman I do not know.
but in my view of women barely interests sex to woman more
important man arm - combination of the mind and of force which is
caused then can interest concerning men takeing into account their
force that they usually they want from the women of sex this
correctly.
well and dinner on the table of tasty and faithfulness so that
the child would be precise the husband and not of uncle - the
neighbor
Mar'yn
Yes, here Semion completely rights nashchet sex
also. For some reason sex is the basis of good relations, can so
must be. Repair me, if I not rights.
Semion
if woman feels that man promising and it will be
with it that it already can it will be weakened think about the sex.
in the first place from the man this to be im. to toyest' to
earn money and not to offend to be also accurate but for the man this
so not importantly and importantly so that the woman would feel that
it they will not throw especially with the child
Leks
Quotation: as feels herself the woman I do not know.
but the sex barely interests in my view of women
Khm... Daring assertion... About I do
not correctly said know that the women feel, but if their sex (girl,
you prostite) and really does not interest, then they hide this in any
case very skillfully...
Which to the arms, umishcha and other prospects, then it
seems objects this excite women by themselves, is much more rapid than
it manages to be weakened
But good, features take, a question... It seems,
it stands that b to become separate theme.
ThE
You will better explain to me as it works the
complex of elektry, and why generally small girls withstand their
"amorous inclination" to the father if for them and for the boys the
first love - this is mother.
Semion
Freud wrote that boy and father they receive each
other as rivals both girls and mothers also also quarrel
therefore always mother suppress sexuality of girls and
the fathers of the boys
and attraction occurs along the channels of reciprocity
and friendship - different floor
Andrey Bulatovas
Women are capricious - with the men to frequently
more easily agree! Therefore in people, which cannot GOVERN
their reflexes, is formed sexual orientation by means of smaller
resistance.
Semion
yes are better whims than the aggression of men.
Hector
ThE: You will better explain to me as it works the complex of
elektry, and why generally small girls withstand their "amorous
inclination" to the father if for them and for the boys the first love
- this is mother.
They transfer it because the disappointment in the mother,
whom is considered "castrated", is tested.
Archetype
...Freudism at every turn ;)
V.I.
ThE, the quotation:
You will better explain to me as it works the complex of
elektry, and why generally small girls withstand their "amorous
inclination" to the father if for them and for the boys the first love
- this is mother.
The fact that they assume as the complexes of Edipa and
Elektry, can be connected also with the social-welfare reasons.
For example, fathers are less demanding to the daughters than to
the sons. But mothers, daughters are more frequently than they
assign sons on the work on the house.
Reconstruction with the insignificant changes and the
reductions.
18 November 2004
